Blog Posts

  • The Psychotherapy Marketplace

    Lately I have noticed an increasing trend in the psychotherapy field in which the marketplace of ideas has become more crowded. Every day it appears that someone has invented a new theory, therapy, or technique that is then marketed as the latest and greatest breakthrough. A flocking of therapists to training programs on these new inventions has created thriving businesses for many. The good news is that the more these offerings are marketed, the more these new ideas can be heard and explored. The bad news (at least to me), is that it may create an idea that by learning just the “right” theory, therapy, or technique, we as therapists can increase successful outcomes. Some psychotherapy marketers have gone so far as to draw a line in the sand and declare that what they are offering is the cure to most of the emotional problems for which people come to therapy. Others have been more respectful and inclusive in their offerings.

     

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    I think it is important for us all to remember that, in spite of the best marketing efforts, research still shows that any one specific therapy application is not superior to any other when it comes to measuring outcomes. In an article in the journal “Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice”, Stanley Messer and Bruce Wampold found in the results of their research that there is no evidence that that any one therapy application provides the magic bullet for successful clinical work. They write:

    Such results cast doubt on the power of the medical model of psychotherapy, which posits specific treatment effects for patients with specific diagnoses. Furthermore, studies of other features of this model—such as component (dismantling) approaches, adherence to a manual, or theoretically relevant interaction effects—have shown little support for it.

    In fact, the most recent research on what really works in practice involves each individual client’s perceptions of the overall progress of treatment and the key determinant for success still comes down to the client-therapist relationship. Michael J. Lambert and Dean E. Barley, in an article titled, “Research summary on the therapeutic relationship and psychotherapy outcome” from the journal “Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, and Training”, found that factors such as warmth, empathy and the therapeutic relationship had a higher correlation with client outcomes than specialized treatment interventions. (For more on the factors which create success in therapy work, I highly recommend the work of Dr. Scott Miller: www.scottdmiller.com )

    If it is true that specific theories, therapies, and techniques are not, as Bateson would say, “the difference that makes the difference”, then maybe this can free practitioners from any rigid allegiances in the constant changing psychotherapy marketplace.  I still encourage people to create new models and techniques and expand our field; however, I think we all need to be aware that even the greatest technique may go nowhere if a client does not have trust and a solid connection with the therapist. Unconditional positive regard for clients and having a human connection should never go out of style.

  • “Coleyology” Interview

    I was recently interviewed by the lovely and talented Nicole Lemaster for the “Coleyology” podcast, a program which focuses on consciousness, mental health, and holistic living.

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    In this lively, personal, and candid interview, Nicole and I discuss such things as focusing on therapy client strengths, framing problems, co-creating novel experiences, hoodoo, the paradox of trust, writing books, and humor in the therapy room.  She was a delight to interact with and I really enjoyed our chat.

    To listen to the interview, go HERE

  • New Book Now Available!

    My latest book, Unlimited Resources: Simple and Easy Ways to Find, Access, and Utilize Client Strengths and Resources to Facilitate Change, is now available.

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    I wrote this book for psychotherapists who are interested in directing their therapy sessions toward a focus on client strengths and resources instead of an excessive focus on problem investigation and client pathology. I offer case studies, transcripts, and practical examples to give therapists and coaches simple methods for implementing resource directed ways of working.

    To get your copy, go here.

  • That is so random….

    My present belief system is that clients seek help from a therapist due to their feeling stuck in some way. Their ability to work through what they perceive as a problem is hindered by their attempting to deal with the problem with a pattern of action/reaction which furthers to cement the pattern and, unfortunately, makes it worse. If clients are continuing to perform the same patterns of action, thought, and emotion toward the problem, then the problem will be maintained and clients will feel it insurmountable to overcome. This will lead to them perceiving their problem as a personal reality and their automatic responses to this “reality” further solidifies the pattern.

    In order to facilitate a change in these patterns, I believe therapists must be comfortable talking about and doing things that are unexpected and random. Our therapeutic interactions are there to provide clients with new information which can be used to alter the patterns which have previously caused distress. When new and random information enters their present perceived reality, then their reality has to adjust. Sometimes merely giving straightforward logical information in dialogue may not be very effective due to the brain being stuck in a deeply entrenched pattern. Introducing the random into a session can cause the brain to experience different and new realities which can create a shift in how clients respond to their problems. As Gregory Bateson stated in his classic text, Mind and Nature, “Without the random, there can be no new thing.”

    Lucky Dice showing a pair of sixes.

    Random information can come from anywhere. Sources such as popular culture, spirituality, childhood hobbies, fine arts, etc. can all introduce new information about different ways to respond to old problems.  Further examination of the problem and trying to solve the problem only continues the process of the problem. Introducing the random or unexpected into the problem alters the problem.

    I once had a client who was dealing with social anxiety issues and panic attacks due to a variety of factors. He was very worried about running into people he used to know and their observing how little he had advanced in his life. He stated he knew he was depressed and was not in a good place to talk to former friends as he “did not want to burden them” with his problems. When he did go out he would sometimes have a panic attack which would cause him to immediately return home. He felt stuck and more depressed due to his inability to go out often.

    PATTERN: Go out –> worry about seeing someone he knows –> think about the present condition he is in and the shame he has about it  –> have a panic attack –> immediately go home

    I heard him state that he didn’t want to “burden others” with his problems. I immediately latched onto how a desire to not burden someone was actually an act of compassion. I told him that his concern for how other people feel was quite remarkable. I complimented him on how compassionate he was to willingly allow himself to suffer so that others would not suffer. I told him it was possible that his unconscious mind could even be creating these panic episodes to help shield others from feeling his pain. He responded favorably to my conjectures. Our conversation on compassion continued as we discussed many other examples of times he was kind to others. Since he was a religious person, we also discussed the spiritual role of compassion and the many saints who had shown great compassion while going through hardships.  The topic of compassion was a “random” entry into the interaction as neither of us expected it to appear. It did not fit the prearranged pattern of the problem.

    I then told him that it was not fair for him to waste his compassion being alone at home. We had to come up with some way for him to help others with his strong sense of compassion. I told him he had much to teach all of us about how to become more compassionate in our lives. I reminded him about the hardships that the various saints had to face trying to spread their messages of hope to others. I let him know that he could not fully show compassion by staying at home. He needed to find somewhere to interact with others on a small scale to help them learn to have compassion toward themselves. He agreed that this was important work to do. In time, he found that when he did go out he was not as nervous as before and he found that he could interact with people with fewer panic episodes. The random inclusion of “compassion” into the pattern caused his reality to adjust. His previously self-defeating fear was now a source of compassion to be shared with others.

    Random information does not come from a scripted, rehearsed treatment protocol. It can only come from an alive interaction with room for spontaneity. It also does not come from excessive problem investigation. When we allow the random to show up in our therapy room, we can let it flow as we ride the wave of interaction.

  • Healing Trauma with Hypnosis in Nashville – January 27-29, 2017

    Join me and Courtney Armstrong for a dynamic 3-day workshop that will teach you how to effectively heal trauma using a respectful, strengths-based hypnosis approach. This high-powered workshop worth 25 CE’s that is filled with experiential activities and practice sessions that help you discover: 1) why hypnosis is one of the most gentle and effective evidence-based tools you can use for reconsolidating traumatic memories, 2) how to use hypnosis to quickly rewire the brain and activate inner healing states, and 3) how to easily adapt interventions to fit your client’s spiritual, cultural, and personal needs.

    This training will qualify you for LEVEL 1 Certification in Courtney’s cutting edge “Trauma-Informed Hypnotherapy“.

    You’ll learn that hypnosis is not scary or complicated, but merely a way of communicating with the emotional brain where our emotional memories, attachment schemas, and automatic patterns are stored. You’ll see that when you speak to the emotional brain in a language it understands, it updates rather quickly and painlessly. Clients typically enjoy the hypnosis approach we’ll be teaching you, and often finish sessions feeling relieved and uplifted, rather than tired, retraumatized, or drained.

    Don’t miss the fun, fascinating, and educating event!

    For more information go HERE!